SUMMERTIME

We have a neighborhood pool. It is officially open this weekend and the Fullards (Fullers and Millards) could NOT be happier! We wait all year for this time.

Since our children have been very little my twin sister and I have lived two blocks from each other. She lives right across the street from the neighborhood pool. The children all took swimming lessons there when they were little and many a luau pool party was given. We love the pool.

But as the kids get older, I think that maybe it is the time spent together as families that is the true draw. Sunday afternoon is the Fullard Pool time. We come together with snacks or full lunches to share with each other and talk about the week. The kids rarely even get into the water these days but they do all stake claim to a lounger for their towel and sunbathing time. They only grumble slightly when we remind them to reapply sunscreen. They know the drill. Every hour on the hour.

The time we have together is enriched with stories from each of the children. Some will tell of a summer camp they will be attending, some will tell of summer classes dreaded. But we all share thoughts, we share dreams, we share LIFE. And isn' that what family is all about?

We only have these kids for such a short time. Let them know what you are thinking, what you are dreaming for them, your goals for them can be a jumping off point for major life discussions. Do not underestimate your influence on your own children. Use every moment you have with your kids. They are only little for a short while.

If you need me, I'll be at the pool!